يوم جديد – تأثير الطلاق على المراهقين موضوع اللقاء مع هاسميك دانيال – إختصاصية في السلوكيات البشرية
Divorce is typically a sensitive and emotional event and can be quite difficult to talk about, especially with children. It is common for parents to struggle with how to talk to their children about their divorce. Why? Well, some parents are unsure what or how much to tell their kids about what is happening. Some parents are still extremely emotionally raw and vulnerable and worry about their ability to remain calm when talking with their kids about the divorce. As per my personal and professional experience I advice the following : 1- Make sure to talk with your children about the divorce with the other parent. This might be difficult, as some divorces can be quite contemptuous. However, having a joint conversation with your children has potential benefits. First, it ensures your kids are receiving the same message from both parents, which limits confusion and may create a sense of stability .Second, it models that both of you are still a unified parenting front, 2- Be honest in answering all the questions. Being honest is important for two reasons. First, kids are smart and can sense when they are given dishonest information. Feeling that parents are being dishonest can lead to anger. Second, if kids are not told the truth, they may seek the answers themselves or create their own answers. Don’t let them assume what’s going on , simply be honest with them .
3- Let your children know what life will be like after the divorce. Divorce and the changes that come with it can be scary for kids. It is important to let them know what they can expect when it comes to things like where they will live, how much time they will have with each parent, etc..Clarity is mandatory to avoid complications .
4- Support them to grasp the idea ,as they might need some time to adapt . 5- Emphasize that divorce is final and it’s not their fault not to make them feel guilty .
6- Never use your children to take revenge from your partners , you will be hurting your children the most . #OTVLebanon #OTVNews لمتابعة آخر التطورات السياسية ومشاهدة جميع برامجنا القديمة والجديدة، إضغط على الرابط أدناه: otv.com.lb وتابعونا عبر الحسابات التالية: Twitter: @OTVLebanon Instagram: @OTVLebanon Facebook: www.facebook.com/otv.com.lb/
Categories